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Are You
Missing out on
the Essential Ingredient
Successful, Happy People all Enjoy?
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No, it’s not a big bank account – at least not
at first. But after you have it, your
possibilities for happiness and wealth are unlimited. |
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Yes, you can develop it with the right
know-how and easy-to-follow steps. |
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It’s deep, honest self-confidence that comes
from the inside out. Chances are you’ve always
known with a little more confidence you could be, do
and have pretty much anything you set your mind to. |
Dear Friend:
You know you want more. More excitement, fulfillment,
financial prosperity and satisfaction. More time and
resources to help yourself and help others. The only way to
get it is go for it yourself with confidence, clarity and
dedication to your goals.
Do You
Tend to
Stop, Start and Stop again
Going for what You want?
Most of the information about increasing
your confidence and going for your goals and a more
fulfilling life it make it sound easy. The instructions read
something like this:
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Walk up to the edge of a cliff |
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Strap on your wings |
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Say, “I can do it!” |
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Jump off and fly |
The missing link in this equation is that
if you lack self-confidence chances are you won’t make
the leap because you:
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Don’t quite trust the “easy instructions”
or think they’ll work for you |
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Procrastinate and say you’ll get around
to it later |
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Feel overwhelmed because you aren’t sure
if leaping even makes sense |
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Spend too much time analyzing your
options while others pass you by |
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Look for every possible way it could go wrong |
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Are afraid people might judge you if you
fail or look silly |
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Walk up to the edge of the cliff over and over –
and never jump |
You probably don’t want to jump off the side
of a cliff. However, it’s an example of what a lack of
confidence does to hurt our chances for a great life and
real success.
I used to work for a famous bestselling author and seminar
guru who gave advice about business success and going for
it. I’ve met and associated with many other speakers and
authors, too. Once offstage, behind closed doors, he
couldn’t relate to people who lacked confidence. He
wanted to empower people but really didn’t quite know how to
help a hesitant person become empowered. Especially if that
person happened to be a woman.
It’s not his fault – its not any man’s fault. Let’s be
honest, girls are raised differently from boys. Most girls
are socialized in ways that are less likely to contribute to
feeling confident and in charge. Science is proving our
brains are wired differently from men’s brains. That
shifts our confidence level, too.
If
You've felt Torn -
One Day You're Confident and
the next Day Lacking Confidence
- Keep Reading!
Most women are raised to be good wives,
mothers, sisters and daughters. Not daring, risk-taking
entrepreneurs. We were taught to avoid risks. This brave
new world of starting our own businesses and careers is
quite new. We are pioneers – especially if you’re age 40
or over.
Many women start and pull back – one day confident and the
next day lacking confidence. No one ever said we’d make a
great CEO someday. “Should I really go for it?” we ask. The
moment we do, it seems like countless reasons to rein it
back in pop up. I compare it to driving down a freeway
with one foot on the accelerator and the other on the brakes
– at the same time. It’s not much fun and it hurts our
momentum. As a result, we’re sometimes perceived as being
less dedicated.
Here’s an important truth: your business growth and
success can’t happen any faster than your personal growth.
I researched what makes women powerful in an attractive,
compelling, “want to get to know her” way. Not a pushy,
domineering way. And, what makes women come across as
powerful is confidence.
You may be 100 percent confident in some facets of your
life. This is your comfort zone. But you may be afraid to
step out in other areas. You just don’t feel quite like
you’ve got it all together. So you try to avoid it reminding
yourself how confident you feel when safely in your comfort
zone. Once you leave your comfort zone – your confidence
disappears. If this sounds like you, read on.
Do You
Recognize Yourself
in the Examples Below?
Here are several areas where I’ve discovered
women often feel less confident.
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Approaching new people in person or on
the phone |
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Shifting the topic of conversation to
talk about what you do |
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Sharing your experience and why you’re good at
what you do |
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Asking questions to find out about how
what you do might help people |
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Asking for the sale |
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Asking for the money |
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Asking full price – and not offering a
discounted rate |
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Putting together and/or sending out invoices |
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Calling and asking for payment if it’s
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Notice a pattern? It’s about approaching
people and asking for what you want. If you’ve ever had a
tough time asking your husband, boyfriend or partner for
what you want for Christmas, your birthday or Valentine’s
Day you know what I mean. Even if he gets the hint – what
works in your personal life can fail miserably in your
business life.
Women excel at other parts of relationships. The examples
listed above I’ve heard over and over from people attending
my workshops and among my mentoring clients. How great
would it be if you felt 100 percent confident even when it’s
time to ask for money or talk about yourself?
I love being confident. I’ve traveled around the world and
taken business risks. I’ve promoted my message even when the
nattering nabobs of negativity said I couldn’t. I’m a
published author of a business bestseller. I lost a lot of
weight, married the love of my life at 48 and have what I
consider a great life. Am I 100 percent fearless? Nope.
I've
Learned to
Strap on my Wings and Jump
Believe me I used to live in the trenches of
self-doubt. I over-analyzed everything to death before
making a move. I could tell you a million reasons why
something wouldn’t work. I would stress over the thought of
calling a prospective client on the phone, or, asking for a
sale. I was afraid of rejection. Then I’d beat myself up
for not taking action. It was overwhelming and wasted a
tremendous amount of emotional energy. You, too?
It didn’t help that my parents were fear-based people. Good
folks, but they always made safe choices. Never push
yourself too much. My parents cared about us kids “fitting
in” and being like others. Not standing out.
Like
most Women
I wasn't Raised to be Confident
I didn’t want to live my life afraid – but I
didn’t have the confidence to overcome barriers, either. I
wanted a richer, fuller, more prosperous, exciting life. But
every time I faced taking a leap and doing something big it
felt like diving into a swimming pool and not knowing if
there was water at the bottom.
Funny thing is – no one would’ve guessed I was often shaking
like a leaf inside. Appearing confident on the outside is
great. But it’s not the whole enchilada. Feeling
confident inside and projecting it outside in a positive way
is amazing.
Do you want to waste more time wishing and hoping you’ll
magically reach the point where you’re ready to go for it?
I
Finally Woke from My Long Dream
When I told my parents growing up I wanted
to be a writer I was told, “That will never happen.” Many
times my dreams were dashed or I was put in my place. “A
NICE GIRL doesn’t do THAT!” I know what it feels like to
have your dreams snatched away before you’ve even gotten
started. I had to un-learn all that and you can, too.
One day I finally understood the mysteries to possessing
true confidence inside and outside. In my 40s I started
applying those secrets in a way that worked for me – a
woman. My relationships improved, my cash flow improved, my
health and fitness level improved. Everything important in
my life got better. Fast.
Now, I’m so excited about my confident, empowered life I
want to share my secrets with you. These are the same
secrets I’ve shared with thousands in workshops, teleclasses
and with elite mentoring clients. I share because I want you
to enjoy your own confident, empowered life. There’s enough
abundance and good for all of us.
You can’t make positive changes without confidence.
My life became more exciting, fun and prosperous. I gained
clarity about what I wanted and how to go for it.
Real
Confidence comes from Feeling:
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Calm and peaceful on the inside – the
overwhelmed feelings are gone |
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Comfortable in your own skin. |
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At ease about your appearance and the face
you show the world. |
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Effortless handling conversations with grace
and warmth |
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Deserving about asking for what you’re worth
in business in a pleasant way |
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Capable solving problems for yourself and
others |
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You quietly know inside you’re all that and a
bag of chips!! |
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people are drawn to you. They want to be around you and
share your positive, confident energy. Whether it means
buying from you, working with you or another connection
that’s a win-win. Improved confidence will make your
business, your career and your life better. Confidence to:
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Live the life you want without hesitation
or feeling overwhelmed |
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Promote yourself with ease |
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Share what’s great about you so people are
drawn to you |
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Get your share of financial abundance |
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Eliminate shyness forever in any
situation. |
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Trust that what you put your heart into
will come to fruition |
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Attract more of all the good you want |
My fun, unique “Up Your Confidence” program
can help you develop unstoppable confidence that’s
eluded you no matter how many years you’ve tried to figure
it out.
You
don't Need Therapy or Analysis
Believe in yourself and do what works. “Up
Your Confidence” will show you how. It provides proven,
step-by-step instructions in an enjoyable, easy-to-follow
way. You’ll practice new ways of be-ing and watch
your confidence increase. Feelings of overwhelm, fear
and “it’s all too much” decrease. You’ll do and say what
you’ve always wanted to (in a pleasant way).
“Up Your Confidence” is four (4) audios of one hour each.
It’s fun, insightful and will make you say “a-ha” over and
over. Download the audios to your computer, IPod, a disc and
listen again and again. As you listen, the lessons sink in.
You’ll laugh and smile. And, you’ll “get it” on many levels
in your heart and your mind.
Here's
what You Get:
Lesson One:
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Discover why confidence is extremely
important to your success |
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How to believe in yourself once and for
all |
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Stop giving away your power in your
business and your life |
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Ask for the money you deserve without feeling
squeamish or pushy |
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The ugly truth of what happens in
business |
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Understand your comfort zone and how to get
what you really want. |
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Why we avoid stepping beyond our comfort zone |
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Why you feel confident in some situations and
not leaf in other situations |
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Change experiences that negatively impacted your
confidence in the past |
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Eliminate destructive voices that say
you’re not enough |
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Stop “faking it till you make it” and be your
authentic confident self |
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Ask for and get support to get past
negative thinking |
Lesson Two:
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Why psychology doesn’t help people feel
more confident |
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Appear more confident on the outside and
make others take notice |
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Body language secrets that spell
confidence |
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Ask for the sale/job with confidence and
without being pushy |
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Present ideas with enthusiastic calm to a
room full of new people |
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Greet and meet others with confidence |
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Be seen as in charge rather than as a
scared intern or assistant |
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Tap into your powerful inner core of
confidence |
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Understand shyness and get over it fast
whenever it creeps up |
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Meet new people and make new friends and
customers easily |
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Recover quickly after embarrassing
situations |
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Accentuate what others like about you |
Lesson Three:
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Express what’s great about you without
tooting your own horn |
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How “being a nice girl” holds you back – be
pleasant, kind and warm instead |
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Why asking feels challenging (it might
make you feel dumb) |
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Why men enjoy promoting themselves and
what they’re good at |
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Never shy away from making that important
call again |
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Why you hate asking and love when people
give you what you want |
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Shift your perception to increase your
confidence and get results |
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Make empowered, confident choices from
today forward |
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Where confidence comes from and foolproof ways
to get it |
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How to use your conscious choices to your
advantage |
Lesson Four
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Never get hooked into old fears or
others’ fears and stress. |
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Change your brain grooves from fearful to
confident |
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Help your children to grow up confident
and self-assured |
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Overcome your subconscious mind fighting to keep
you where you are |
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How negative thinking keeps you afraid
and what to do about it |
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Raise your prices and know you’re doing
what’s best for yourself, your business AND your
customers. |
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Discover how affirmations can help you
enjoy more confidence |
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Bring more abundance and financial prosperity
into your life |
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Tap into your new strength any time you want |
Confidence Attracts People to You
It’s not about wearing the perfect jewelry,
designer outfit, having the right college degree, cosmetic
surgery or marrying the right man. It’s about confidence.
Plain and simple. You can’t just put it on like a new pair
of shoes or earrings. But you can acquire it – and I can
help you. You know after the initial euphoria of getting
something new wears off – you’re back to where you
started from, right?
Get my “Up Your Confidence” audio program, apply what you
learn and confidence will be yours. No matter where you are
in life – from just getting started to a few years away from
retirement – more confidence will help you.
Be, Do
and Have More of
what Matters to You
I wish I could say after you get “Up Your
Confidence” you’ll be making business deals like
billionaires Donald Trump or Oprah Winfrey. Maybe that’s not
what you want. Do you want to double your income? Feel
empowered about getting in shape? Negotiate a better salary?
Or, are you starting from scratch and just want to get over
your shyness?
Apply what you learn and you’ll grow, change and increase
your confidence level. Remember, your business and career
growth can’t happen any faster than your personal growth.
This next year can be one of the best years of your life.
With increased self-esteem and confidence you will finally
have a foundation for a better life and a lot more joy.
If you’ve read this far I know you want to be, do and have
more of everything important to you.
I won't
Hold Anything back -
I Hope You won't, Either
I’ll give you the tools that’ve helped me
and thousand of people in my teleclasses and workshops
increase their confidence. Use those tools to create more
good in your life and the lives of others.
The system and strategies revealed in “Up Your Confidence”
have changed the lives of women in wonderful ways because I
guide you and help you put it together. You ACT more
confident outside and FEEL more confident inside.
Why I
Believe I can Help You
Enjoy Greater Confidence
Who am I? I’m the author of business
bestseller, “Testosterone-Free Marketing.” It’s a fast,
fun read and the only book about helping women, small
business owners understand why they tend to hold back from
success in marketing and selling and how to have more fun,
feel more confident and make a lot more money.
I’m known as “The Marketing Maven” and an “Empowerment
Expert.” I help women ask for what they want so
customers want to happily say “Yes!” I’ve helped thousands
of people be, do and have more in their businesses and their
lives.
Since the book was published I’m proud to say it’s become a
business bestseller and thousands of readers have told me
how much they love it. They asked me to delve even
deeper into the challenges they experienced with confidence
and how to feel more confident on the inside and outside.
That’s what “Up Your Confidence” is all about.
During my seven and a half years working for top bestselling
authors and seminar gurus, I watched people pay thousands of
dollars to improve themselves by flying to high-priced
weekend seminars. They got motivated and excited – but
they didn’t gain much confidence. Why? Because those
slick, onstage salesmen always promised the people in the
audience they would get it if they just bought the next
seminar. When I started my own business I promised myself
I’d never do that.
Wanting
More Confidence and
Feeling Empowered is a Good Thing -
I can Help You Get there
I always deliver on what I offer if
you take action and apply what you learn.
I don’t live in a mansion or drive a Rolls Royce, however
when I look in the mirror I feel great about how I help
people like you. My husband and I own an elegantly
furnished, though modest home. We don’t sweat the mortgage.
We own our newer cars outright. We’re in good shape for the
future and we travel in style. Since this economic downturn
we’ve taken two luxury vacations and are planning more. It’s
a great life especially when people say how much my book and
audio products help them.
Consider what you’ve missed out on because you’ve
held back, procrastinated, felt overwhelmed or over-analyzed
a situation until the opportunity passed you by? How much
has it cost you to lack the confidence you need – when you
need it? Imagine turning it around for less than fifty
bucks?
Okay,
how Much for
"Up Your Confidence?"
I’m offering this four (4) session audio
program at a startlingly low price: just $47.95 USD for
everything above. Each audio is an hour in length. It’s
an outstanding value because you get proven tools to
increase your confidence. And, you can listen over and over,
practicing until it becomes a part of you. Your success.
Your way.
Remember, your business growth cannot happen any faster
than your personal growth. So if you’ve been wasting
time and energy struggling to come up with more tips and
ideas but ignoring your self-confidence level – isn’t it
time to turn it around?
Just say, “Yes Denise, I want more confidence so I can get
more out of life. I’m ready.”
How Much
has Your
Lack of Confidence Cost You?
If you got one more sale a week because you
feel more confident and self-assured - what would that mean
to your business for the rest of the year? How ‘bout two
more sales? For only $47.95 USD how great would you feel
knowing you're comfortable in your own skin, you deserve
success and you feel great about going after your goals
without stopping and starting?
If you’ve struggled in a job or business you hate because
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lack of confidence has cost you more. It’s cost untold
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Confidence” right now.
This audio program is your opportunity for extreme self
care, more cash flow and success. As you feel more
confident you’ll implement the lessons in a way that feels
right for you. You’ll create a core of confidence making you
unstoppable.
The Next
Step is Easy
For only $47.95 “Up Your Confidence” can be
yours. Because it’s downloadable you can listen over and
over. Be honest with yourself and decide if more
confidence will help you to be, do and have more.
Isn't it time to up your confidence and enjoy the success
you deserve? Don’t wait another minute. Click the button
below and get yours today.
Yours in abundance and joy,
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Denise Michaels
Denise Michaels
Author, “Testosterone-Free Marketing” a Business Bestseller
The Marketing Maven and Empowerment Expert |
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